If you’ve been planning your wedding for more than five minutes, you’ve probably heard people debating the “First Look.” Some couples love it, some prefer tradition — and honestly, there’s no wrong answer.

But here’s my friendly, photographer-who’s-seen-a-lot-of-wedding-days take on it:

💛 The Pros of a First Look:

1. You get a private moment together.
No audience. No pressure. Just you two seeing each other for the first time — and reacting however you want without 200 eyeballs on you. It’s usually one of the most emotional moments of the entire day.

2. It calms the nerves.
I’ve seen grooms go from pacing like NASCAR drivers on lap 498…
to completely peaceful the second they see their bride.

3. More photos, less rushing.
We can knock out couple portraits and most wedding party photos before the ceremony. This means:

• more time with your guests
• less stress
• better lighting
• and no sprinting through portraits during cocktail hour

4. Your timeline becomes SO much smoother.
Seriously. So. Much. Smoother.

🌿 The Cons of a First Look:

1. It breaks the tradition of seeing each other at the aisle.
If this moment has always been important to you — honor that! I’m a big believer that your day should reflect you.

2. You’ll need to be ready earlier in the day.
Hair, makeup, and details start just a bit sooner. But honestly… it usually feels worth it for the calm it creates later.

📸 My Gentle, Photographer Heart Conclusion:

Whether you choose a First Look or stick with tradition, the most important thing is this:
Your emotions matter.

If the idea of a private moment together feels right, do it.
If the aisle moment has always been your dream, keep it.

Either way, I’ll be there capturing the joy exactly as it unfolds — authentically, unfiltered, and totally you. 💛